No. XVIII
Carlyle-Macaulay-Sydney Smith
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A.—Is he {Thomas Carlyle} as good a talker as Macaulay?
H.—He is not so neat, brilliant and epigrammatic, but he is
more cordial and exhibits a greater ardour and generosity. Carlyle opens the hearer’s heart—Macaulay
closes it. There is an under current of
sarcasm and contempt in Macaulay, as if he felt it a condescension to talk with
inferiors, and, with all his external courtesy, people rarely feel quite at
their ease in his company. Carlyle
exhibits none of this offensive condescension.
His associates feel safe in
his presence, and do not anticipate that
he will laugh at his retreating guest as soon as the door is closed behind him.
A.—You do not surely believe that Macaulay so treats his
visitors?
H.—I do not say that he does; but he always left on my mind
the impression that he might do so,
without much pain to his conscience. He
is amongst the sneerers—a race I
abominate. I always dreaded to ask him
his opinion of any man whom I esteemed and loved, and, though he uniformly
treated me very kindly and courteously, I used to remember the fine
observations of Mrs. Norton, quoted by Leigh Hunt in a note to his Blue Stocking Revels—“We are too apt to
think only of how we are treated; too
little accustomed to observe what is the treatment of others by the same person.
Watch and weigh. If a man speak
evil of his friends to you, he will also speak evil of you to his friends. Kind and caressing words are easily spoken,
and pleasant to hear; but the man who bears a kind heart bears it to all and
not to one only. He who appears to love
only the friend he speaks to, and slanders or speaks coldly of the rest, loves
no one but himself.”
A.—What exquisite observers of society are intelligent
women! Every word of that quotation is
perfect truth. Mrs. Norton is something
of a poetess, too. The Quarterly dubs her the female Byron.
